Module

Caregiver communication + conflict (without blame) — scripts + boundaries

A practical module for caregiver–survivor communication: handling frustration, autonomy vs safety, and using scripts/boundaries without shame. Includes escalation for unsafe situations

CaregiverCaregiverIntermediate14 minStandard (9–12)

Educational only

Educational only — for safety risks or abuse concerns, seek professional support.

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What you'll learn

  • Use de-escalation language during conflict
  • Set safety boundaries without blame
  • Create a shared ‘safety agreement’ for high-risk moments

Why conflict happens

  • Fatigue
  • Loss of independence
  • Cognitive changes

Scripts

  • De-escalation
  • Choices
  • Boundary

Safety agreement

  • Bathroom at night
  • Meds
  • Driving

Practice check

Check your understanding

A few untimed questions. Pick an answer to see instant feedback, then continue to the next lesson.

0 of 2 answered

Question 1

1. Offering choices can reduce conflict and support autonomy.

Question 2

2. A helpful de-escalation phrase is…

References

  1. AHA/ASA Stroke Rehabilitation & Recovery Guideline (2016) (caregiver training/participation concepts) logo
  2. Family Caregiver Alliance: Caregiving communication resources logo